I am that kinda of a lady who thinks that life is what you make it. Make it hard and you will surely see how hard it can be. All manner of hardships come your way from right, left and center. I also have those moments when I make my life hard in one way or the other but at the end of the day, I make sure I look at the situation from the positive side of it.
And yes!!!!, Reading your bible as many times as possible, it helps all the time,all the time
I might not make sense at that particular time but reflecting on those words after the dust has settled, you will realize why we are on earth and God is in heaven